Friday, 19 July 2013

Onward Ho

This afternoon, we leave for a soccer tournament in Kingston.  Unfortunately, I woke up with a terrible sore throat this morning.  Aveen has had a cold for the last two weeks.  Let's hope that staying in a less-than-comfortable looking motel and playing and watching soccer in the hot sun (or thunderstorm or tornado) all weekend and going out for a group dinner late is the answer!

On Sunday, I will let you know if that did the trick.....

Monday, 15 July 2013

The Heat is On

Week 3 of Summer. 

This week, we contend with tennis camp, which is mornings only - with rotating and creative childcare in the afternoon - and the second week of French.  It was the pronom relative today.  Our assignment was to write a text using the passé, with the subjunctive, pronom object direct and indirect, a verb ending with a preposition, and a pronom relative.  It made for rather convoluted writing.

And we are in the midst of a heat wave.  Air conditions are broken or are not able to cool down houses.  Throughout the city, people can't sleep.  Children are lethargic and soccer practices are shortened.  There is a run on freezies.  My daughter, who does not eat fruit on principle, resorts in desperation to watermelon.

It is the season of plenty.  Every fruit is in season - mango, leechie nuts, strawberries, cherries.  Soon it will be wild blueberries.  It is mid-summer in Ottawa.

I have never before swum everyday in the summer. This is a first.

And I should be only watching French television, but it is too tempting to keep watching Downton Abbey.
   

Saturday, 13 July 2013

Today I am a little sad

Because I have had to say good-bye to two friends. 

One friend who lived around the corner and is moving away.  I walked by her house and it was dark and empty.  Yesterday, I saw the moving trucks in front of her house.  I feel sad for myself and Aveen who was her son's friend.  And what is better for a child than having a friend just around the corner?

And today I also said good-bye to another dear friend who is going back to her posting.  She will be back, and we have had a good visit, and we will be linked by continuous e-mail. But still.  She is going to be far for another year.

The pool was closed for cleaning today, so that was disappointing.  We went twice, expecting to swim, as it was supposed to be open but it was not but it was supposed to re-open but then it didn't. It would have been such a great day to swim.  Aveen and Amrita were hot and disappointed but not as much as me!  I felt some of those pains that really haven't been bothering me all week as long as I swim every day.  The pool better be open tomorrow!

One accomplishment is that I found a place for us to stay in New York the last week of August when we are planning to go.  It looks like a lovely brownstone which is what I wanted to get the true New York experience.  (In fact, I wanted a brownstone in Brooklyn but didn't find the right one.)  There wasn't very much available at an affordable price at this relatively late date.  Most of the places look very crammed in large apartment buildings.  This one looks quite beautiful with two stories and a terrace and is near Central Park.  I can't believe I am actually booking a trip again!

Tuesday, 9 July 2013

French, Swimming and Downton Abbey

My days are now filled with learning French (good for getting back some concentration ), swimming at the Tennis Club (makes me feel much better physically - thanks to my friend for inviting me which led me to getting my own membership!) and watching Downton Abbey (which has been successful in keeping my attention - thanks to my friend for lending me the DVD!).

I got the pool membership for me and Amrita since Aveen is at soccer all the time.  I feel a bit guilty for not having bought one for him too.  He thinks I am obsessed with swimming and that "poor Amrita's childhood is being ruined with too much swimming".  But poor Amrita is a fish and loves to swim almost as much as me, though she has requested that we go once every two or three days instead of everyday - not entirely unreasonable. But, no, we are going to go every day.  Sorry. 

Monday, 8 July 2013

Ici on parle francais


Today was the first day of my language training.  It wasn't too bad.  I have always liked school and learning to use the language part of my brain.  So, as long as the teachers are good and the other students in the class are okay, I enjoy it.  However, I did find it long, as I am not used to full days and I'm not used to yakking all day.  Also I am tired from the weekend and have a bit of a cold. 
Being back in "full time", I am now busy again, like everyone else.  When I was at home, everyone else seemed to me to be so busy.  It was as if my life had slowed down just when everyone else's had sped up.  Or maybe only my pace had changed. And it was just the theory of relativity playing tricks on me.  Now I feel like I am starting to catch up again.  But I am going to pace myself.
So this evening is all about eating extra spicy chicken curry to see if I can get rid of my cold. And putting everyone to bed early because we're all tired from the weekend!

Sunday, 7 July 2013

Sudden Death (but still a silver medal)

It was a lovely, meandering sort of weekend, the sort you can only have in early July, with the whole of summer still ahead of you.

It started on Friday evening with a swim at the tennis club.  Though the skies were threatening and the water cold, it is always wonderful to swim.  Afterwards, we ran into our friends and dallied over liquid freezies and coffee.  We came home and played a family game of Apples to Apples (which is quite a good game for parents!).

The rest of the weekend was a lot (but no means all) about soccer as it was another tournament weekend.  So while Jaime and Aveen were at soccer, Amrita and I made our way back to the pool and then to our friend's house where we were having a wonderful reunion dinner with another set of friends on vacation mid-way through their posting overseas.  It was a quintessential summer evening, perfectly warm with some breeze.  We sat on the patio and ate and chatted until the wee hours (past 10:00 which are the wee hours when you have to be on the soccer field in Blackburn Hamlet by 8:00 the next morning).

We didn't sleep for very long last night.  The wake-up came far too early.  Aveen and Jaime left early, and a friend of Amrita's came over.  A friend of mine then picked us up and we went to the Farmer's Market where there was face painting, organic vegetables (kale and colliflower curry tonight), lunch at the tennis club, and (of course) a swim.

Then we rushed to the soccer game as Aveen's team had made it to the Finals.  It was a close and exciting game, tied at 1:1 at the end.  The game went into overtime.  Alas, the other team scored and it was "sudden death" for Aveen's team.  They still won the silver medal and only lost gold by 1 point in a Tier 1 tournament despite being a Tier 2 team - more exciting (for me) than Wimmbleton!

Tomorrow, I start language training.  Another milestone. 

Friday, 5 July 2013

Turns out that riding a horse is good therapy

We went to Montebello this weekend, and it was almost exactly how I imagined it would be.

The weather cleared up, just as we arrived (in less than hour, via the new Highway 50).  We were able to play tennis and mini-golf and go swimming in the outdoor pool (which is way nicer than the Chateau Montebello's indoor pool).  It was my first swim since it all happened and it was wonderful!  We stayed in the pool almost the whole weekend!

In the evening, we took at walk along the river and passed a stable.  Amrita remembered the pony rides she took in Paris a few years ago.  She wanted to try horse back riding.  So, the next day, Amrita and I decided to try it.  Amrita rode a black horse named Fury while I was led to a brown horse named Jessie.  The guide promised to take good care of Amrita and we started off on our path alongside the river and then through the woods. 

Jessie proved to be a fairly well behaved horse.  She surprised me from time to time by picking up quite a bit of speed going down slopes but was mostly co-operative.  Riding a horse was both thrilling and relaxing and a little bit scary.  Especially down hills.  And hanging for dear life turns out to be a good way to really be present in the moment, which is my goal. 

After all that swimming and horseback riding and tennis, I had that really good achy feeling which I hadn't felt in a long time. I was sad when it went away. 

Back in the city, a friend invited me and Amrita as guests to an outdoor pool club and we had such a nice time that I bought a membership for us. So now I can go swimming in an outdoor pool all summer and  hopefully have that nice feeling all summer!